Woe is Weaning

Woe is weaning
Not really
Fascinating new textures
Juicy new tastes
The joys of food
Discovered

Goodbye breastfeeding
Take an emotional bow
You didn’t create our bond
But you were part of the package
Parting ways is harder than I thought
But we’re ready

Woe is weaning
Not true
Embrace your dependence
Drink your milk
From a cup!
Grow

I said I’d breastfeed for 6 months. Then I said I’d carry on. Now I’ve breastfed for a year and as Chris’ gran so tactfully puts it, “the milk bar,” is now closed. I was told the whole stopping feeding thing could get quite emotional but I didn’t really believe it would affect me in that way.  But it kind of has. 

I could see LLC was ready to be weaned (holding her mouth open over my breast as if it was a free flow cup was a hint!) and I felt ready to stop. Still, what I underestimated was my feeling of loss for the lovely mommy and LLC cuddle time that came with breastfeeding in the morning and before bed. The chance of LLC cuddling up to me at these times is now slim to none. She’s just too on the go. Of course we have cuddle time and closeness in many other ways, but I did enjoy giving her something natural and good while having a snuggle.  It’s a little sad to say goodbye to that.

Still, we’re both ready, so we move on.  Just not without a little wistful moment.

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4 Responses to Woe is Weaning

  1. Bee says:

    oh, i love your poem….it expresses this stage in a mommy's life so well. i cried my eyes out when i gave up breast feeding…could never quite explain why it was so hard. but i guess its part of our little ones growth into independent little beings….and we have to let go and let them do it, right? but on the other side of things, we find so many other ways to bond now that we don't breastfeed, which is so lovely.

  2. Tanya (Bump2Basics) says:

    It was that unexpected emotion that got me. I didn't go into it thinking it would hook me emotionally.

  3. Tanya (Bump2Basics) says:

    That is a fab idea, I really should. It is nice to pack away those nursing bras! I don't miss them one bit.

  4. Jenifer says:

    i will not benefit much from this but my parents will, so thanks a lot
    LOL never might have thought of that, wonderful! xxx

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